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Mizzy’s Boutique: Alternative Lifestyle Adult Novelty Shop

Updated: Mar 17, 2022

Traveling the east coast, vending at Alternative Swingers Lifestyle Parties one city at a time!

Updated 2.28.2022

If we fit your event, let us know, we’d love to be part of your adventure! In the meantime, let's check out some of the swinger's parties and hotel takeover events we've previously visited.


What an amazing day this was celebrating Ms. Lady’s birthday outdoors on such a beautiful afternoon. This travel took us to Pennsylvania for the weekend, where you have the luxury of renting out an amazing kink BNB staged with all your wants and needs for an incredible night.

Photo taken at Ladies Wicked Playground Event


Lady’s Wicked Playground is an alternative lifestyle company offering:

  • Private themed room rental, overnight or daytime quickie. This room is fully equipped with implements from local vendors and more for your learning and entertainment experience. Also stocked with refreshments and snacks. Private off-street parking available.

  • Meet and Greets

  • Monthly gatherings / play parties

  • Private / couple one-on-one sessions

  • So much more!!!


Although a bit out of order, this was the second pop up shop with the boutique. Adding the tent was a great call, as you can see, the setup has come such a long way! I cannot wait to see what it will look like events to come.

Photo Taken in Pittsburg, PA


The most memorable trip Spencer and I took together was to Risqué Lifestyle. With our Prius packed to capacity, we drove 36 hours straight on the most incredible adventure to Louisiana, for Back School Hotel Takeover. When we accomplished that drive and set up, we knew the boutique had no limits.

Overall, such a fun group of humans teaching us about the swinging culture of the south.

Photo Taken at Risqué Lifestyle, Louisiana


To the location that has made the most impact on Mizzy’s Boutique by being the first to hang our banner in their club. We couldn’t be more proud sponsoring The Paradise Club, an incredible private, members only swingers club.

Video footage taken at The Paradise Club Swingers Party.


Pennsylvania’s Premiere Couples and Single Females Only Lifestyle Club

The Paradise Club is an 8300 sq. ft. upscale party facility nestled in the beautiful Pocono Mountains. The club was created for lifestyle couples who enjoy friendly, open-minded, liberated adult fun & excitement, in a clean and secure environment. Enjoy a romantic getaway and fulfill your intimate fantasies. You'll find that we are conveniently close but just far enough away.

The club prides itself on being a place where you can go for a relaxed atmosphere with no pressures from any of the members. The intimate environment with like-minded adults leads to a more memorable experience with your partner.

Relax on the deck or in the outdoor hot tub under the stars. Our heated indoor pool makes every party a pool party. Or get out on the dance floor with the stripper pole and heat it up to the best dance music on a professional sound and light system. Once you have spent some time in the club’s main social area, make your way downstairs to the playrooms. There are several theme rooms to choose from. Enjoy a private room with your partner or leave the door open, it's up to you. If you're really feeling frisky, go all out in our open Roman Room. We guarantee it will be an intoxicating hedonistic atmosphere! You will fulfill your fantasies.

We have the best dinner and dessert buffet around everything is made homemade in house. Dinner buffet is open at 8pm and dessert goes out at 10pm food is available throughout the night until it's gone.

The Paradise opens to New Members between 7-8 pm, Members at 8 pm, and the music is shut off at 3:30 am, we close at 4 am.


When the sun is out, Secret Sinsations swingers hotel takeover is the place to be! The courtyard is such a great place to gather, seeing all the sexy humans! You’ll always find Mizzy’s Boutique centrally located for your lifestyle shopping pleasures.

Video footage taken at Secret Sinsations Event


Secret Sinsations is the proud host of the lifestyles classiest parties. These unique parties are the hottest way to meet like-minded people. Secret Sinsations will be taking over a hotel near you, so please check out our events often. Secret Sinsations events are private, and not open to the public. This provides the opportunity to enjoy a completely nonjudgmental atmosphere, where you are able to embrace being yourself. We at Secret Sinsations cannot wait to dazzle you with all that we have to offer in our events.

During the daytime party, join us poolside for our ever popular games, with a ton of giveaways and prizes. The daytime can be best equated to spring break for adults! When the sun goes down, the party gets transformed. Our evening parties turn into a sexy nightclub element that rivals any. The dance floor is adorned with dance cages, stripper pole, and a high end sound system and lighting. After the party take a walk to check out our play room, or experience a number of after parties hosted by other guests or host one of your own!


When we attended The Deviate Swingers Camping Takeover Weekend, I was in heaven! Legit, the woods is my favorite place to be. Spending the nights in front of the fire with like minded swinger humans, well… it was fantastic!

Video Footage Taken at weekend takeover

Deviate Parties

Alternative Lifestyle Friendly Swinger Centric Home Parties. Host your own Deviate Party!

Deviate has been in the lifestyle party business for over 10 years! We know how to spice up any party!

We put together Party Packages for any party theme or lifestyle!

Deviate Home Parties Are fun and exciting Pleasure Parties that you and your friends can enjoy best of all you can make money or just have fun!

With our party enhancement packages you can host a sexy fun parties just like the pros.

Forget the old way gone are the days of conservative women only home parties.

Parties without limits, We've introduced a new concept in Pleasure Parties with products that range from mild to wild, embracing all lifestyles with no pyramid schemes contracts or pesky obligations.


This is probably one of my favorite sets ups to date. Princess Gemeni really took into consideration the needs of the boutique and was the most gracious host. I really felt like the boutique came to life in this space.

Video Footage Taken at Princess Gemeni’s Event


What a trip! Badd Kitty Club, located close to Niagara Falls made for the best friends outing ever! After all, there’s always time to make memories even on a work weekend. It’s all about balance!

This cove located within the club gave Mizzy’s Boutique it’s own special home during the night, allowing humans to freely flow through, shopping at their leisure.

Video Footage Taken at Badd Kitty Club

Private Swingers Club


How fantastic! Two special communities all in one! We absolutely love collaborating with Pour Some Sugar on Me, so to have the cross collaboration with TPA was an extra bonus! Let the swingers unite!

Video Footage taken at Pour Some Sugar On Me’s Event held at TPA, Maryland


We are a group of lifestyle friends, including couples, single females, and select single males. We host adult hotel parties in the Pennsylvania, Delaware and New Jersey area. Parties are for people new to the lifestyle, or people that have been in the lifestyle for many years.

All parties are held at a discreet location (lifestyle friendly hotel), paid security guards are there to keep nonparty guests from entering venue. Guests do not have to stay the night to enjoy the fun; Event only tickets can be purchased and are good for all the fun.

The party starts off on the hotel floor with a small pre-party that offers light snacks and drinks. It’s a great way to meet new friends. At 8pm the main party starts in the ball room with a DJ or Band, and cash bar. At 11 pm, Once upstairs meet up with old and new friends and enjoy the rest of the night.


The Private Affair is an alternative lifestyle club for adventurous, consenting adults (21 years of age or older), located just minutes from Interstate 95 in Port Deposit Maryland serving the mid-Atlantic from Virginia to New York and beyond.

Open every weekend for social parties.


How fun! Hope you enjoyed visiting each location with me. This was just a small glance, so be sure to follow along to join the adventures.

One last notation, please make sure you read all the group and club rules, as each operate differently. If you are chatting with the clubs, be sure to tell them Mizzy sent you!


Last but not least…

our very own Mindbender Parties Alternative Lifestyle Parties, traveling the east coast.


Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires. Upon arrival, you'll be greeted by one of our event Security Staff who will introduce themselves and offer their service throughout the evening. Assuring your safety and comfort are our #1 priority. Once inside you'll have the opportunity to mix and mingle with a respectful and attractive crowd. From there, let your inhibitions guide you. Whether it is dancing the night away to our DJ, tempting and teasing the crowd on the pole, take a ride on the swing or letting it all hang out in the play area, we find that our crowd of real people come back again and again.

Our friends are yours and we hope your friends will become ours. ''Mindbender Parties: where life is anything but the ordinary!''


About Mizzy’s Boutique Mizzy’s Boutique Alternative Lifestyle Gift Shop

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Why buy from Mizzy’s Boutique

✨Hand made, created by Mizzy Bender

✨High quality adult novelties

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About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique, vending at events across the US.

Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.

Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!


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